Sunday, May 17, 2020
CCG Success 02 Hard Work and Impostor Syndrome - Classy Career Girl
CCG Success 02 Hard Work and Impostor Syndrome So, Iâve been getting a lot of requests to talk about imposter syndrome, so that is what Iâm going to do today. If you have ever felt like you are not qualified or not good enough to do the job or to do something scary, maybe youâre a little uncomfortable, and you feel like, who am I to actually do that job? No one is going to think Iâm smart enough. No one is going to think Iâm good enough. Who am I? If this sounds familiar, then you may have had imposter syndrome. CCG Success 02: Hard Work and Impostor Syndrome Subscribe on your favorite platform below: iTunes Google Play Music Stitcher Radio TuneIn iHeartRadio Sound Cloud Weâve all had imposter syndrome. Iâm going to tell you when I had it years ago, back in 2014 when I got invited for my first international speaking event in Brazil. I was scared out of my mind, and I was talking to one of my coaches at the time, and I said, I do not believe Iâm qualified for this. Like who am I to be flown to Brazil to be wined and dined? Theyâre going to do my hair and do my makeup, and Iâm going to speak to thousands of women. Theyâre going to know Iâm an imposter and theyâre going to know Iâm a fake. Theyâre going to know. Theyâre going to be able to tell. I will never forget what my coach told me. She told me that you will always have that in the back of your head. You will always have imposter syndrome. Youâll always feel like youâre not good enough. Itâs never going to go away. You just have to march on and get through it. And I did a couple of weeks later, I flew to Brazil with my family, got onstage, delivered that presentation, and it was an incredible experience. They didnât think I was an imposter. I spoke to 800 women who were so inspired by my talk, and if I had not pushed passed imposter syndrome, I would have never been able to help those women. Even though I was so nervous and had those negative thoughts, I got up there; I did it. And it was an amazing experience for me. So what I also want to tell you is if you can push past feeling like an imposter, and get over that hump and that fear and feeling like a fake, the feeling afterward is incredible. Related Post: Building Recurring Revenue: How I Replaced Income From My Day Job Pushing Past Imposter Syndrome The feeling afterward will motivate you and push you to your next uncomfortable level. I will tell you from my experience in Brazil that it ultimately launched our business because I developed so much more confidence from getting over that scary thing I didnât think I was qualified for. I was able to leap past and everything just changed after that. I just knew if I could speak on stage to thousands of women in Brazil, they were all wearing headphones, they couldnât even understand me, it had to be translated in their language. If I can do that, what else can I do? I can do anything. Right? It really builds your confidence. That is what I want to motivate you and inspire you to do today. If thereâs something you feel like youâre not qualified for, youâre not good enough to do, just try to do it. Go for it, because you will experience such a fantastic feeling afterward and then you will be unstoppable. If I Can Do It, So Can You I hope my story will inspire you. So go out there, do big things. If youâve ever felt like a fake if youâve ever felt like youâre not qualified for something, if youâve had any experiences with imposter syndrome, Iâd love for you to share how you got past it below. Your comments will inspire and motivate others! I recently joined a new mastermind group, and I wonder if I belong there. When you surround yourself with people doing the things you want to do, itâs scary. My mentor has been trying to get me in there for two years, and I always said no I have kids, but part of me also had impostor syndrome. Iâm not good enough to be around those people and in the same room. I may not necessarily be at their level, but I will work my butt off and learn, and being around that group of people will inspire and push me to the next level. Imposter Syndrome Never Goes Away Even today, I am dealing with imposter syndrome. We are launching a rebrand and a new membership site. Who am I to rebrand and bring my mission to a higher level? Who am I to work with this super amazing high-end designer? Spend a ton of money to get a really great logo and website, instead of DIY my logo like I have always done? That is still going on in my head, but if I dont push past, I am never going to have the impact that I want to have. Tips to remember when you feel like an impostor: Through hard work, you can push past imposter syndrome. Often when you see someone successful online, you are not seeing all the late nights and early mornings that go into making it work. Imposter syndrome never goes away; you will always question whether you are good enough. No one is like you and has your strengths and experiences. Everyone who has ever had success has faced imposter syndrome.
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